Trust and Respect
Trust and respect are two similar things you both obtain through certain actions. Whilst obtaining one of these a certain person such as a close friend or family grow bonds with you. The bonds could simply be secrets or an act of love for one another. Trust and Respect both can easily be lost in the matter of seconds without battering an eyelid or without hesitation due to your actions and opinions. Personally I think trust takes longer to build compared to respect because trust is like handing your own life over to someone you once hardly knew and letting them know everything, well mostly everything about you. Some people find it hard to trust others because of previous incidents with family or friends and that is why I think trust is a lot harder to build rather than respect.
Respect comes in many forms. Respect might be awarded through acts of good or simply sticking up for a friend or person that is in trouble. Respect is quite a funny process seeing as everyone has their own ways of dealing with certain situations and also they have their own opinion. Lets say I was debating about a subject of immigration and started talking about the reasons why they might seek refuge in the U.K. such as war in their home country or looking for a better life seeing as our education and health care system is top grade. People might kick up a fuss and attack my views seeing as the media twists everything and makes the public think they are job takers and scroungers, thus earning me less respect with that select group of people, but on the other hand there will be people that will agree which will earn me respect in their eyes.
As I come to think about it Trust and Respect can be similar, but they are completely different in certain situations. Whilst trust grows bonds with the implications of love and relationships respect differs depending on what we say and how we say things to different people.
Trust is a touchy subject for most including myself. I am rather paranoid thinking that everyone is against me when clearly it's not true. Just because of one person that decided to go behind my back and play with me like their toy it made me become insecure thinking that everyone will be like that in relationships making it hard for me to open up and trust people. Being brought up by parents that make sure I respect my elders and that I trust them seeing as they're my parents it makes me realise that both trust and respect are the most important things a person can do to another human being.
Luke St.Denis
Respect comes in many forms. Respect might be awarded through acts of good or simply sticking up for a friend or person that is in trouble. Respect is quite a funny process seeing as everyone has their own ways of dealing with certain situations and also they have their own opinion. Lets say I was debating about a subject of immigration and started talking about the reasons why they might seek refuge in the U.K. such as war in their home country or looking for a better life seeing as our education and health care system is top grade. People might kick up a fuss and attack my views seeing as the media twists everything and makes the public think they are job takers and scroungers, thus earning me less respect with that select group of people, but on the other hand there will be people that will agree which will earn me respect in their eyes.
As I come to think about it Trust and Respect can be similar, but they are completely different in certain situations. Whilst trust grows bonds with the implications of love and relationships respect differs depending on what we say and how we say things to different people.
Trust is a touchy subject for most including myself. I am rather paranoid thinking that everyone is against me when clearly it's not true. Just because of one person that decided to go behind my back and play with me like their toy it made me become insecure thinking that everyone will be like that in relationships making it hard for me to open up and trust people. Being brought up by parents that make sure I respect my elders and that I trust them seeing as they're my parents it makes me realise that both trust and respect are the most important things a person can do to another human being.
Luke St.Denis
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